Many people who are dealing with a spouse's affair would like to find an effective therapist to help them in this process. While this site does not offer counseling, we do provide information about identifying and locating counselors/therapists, as well as offering a variety of resources that may be helpful.

For instance, this site hosts a network of local support groups: "Beyond Affairs Network (BAN)." However, BAN is not a substitute for counseling. Also, I offer "one-time-only" telephone consulting, also not a substitute for ongoing counseling. So...
Below are some pages on this site aimed at identifying and locating effective therapists:

Locating a Therapist
This page lists about 120 therapists in 38 states in the U.S. and 18 therapists in 4 countries outside the U.S. (These therapists have been recommended by clients who found them to be effective in dealing with affairs.

A Message to Effective Counselors/Therapists
This is an invitation to therapists to submit their names for our "Locating a Therapist List" (and receive a complimentary copy of my survey results, described below) and to encourage them to support the work of BAN.

Help for Therapists and their Clients in dealing with affairs
This is an Overview of my Survey on Affairs, providing more perspective on what to look for in an effectiveness therapists.

What can I expect from a therapist?
This is an article containing several previous Questions to which I respond by sharing more of the results of my survey regarding effective therapy.

How to Select a Therapist?
This page is listed on my Links to Related Sites (under the "Marriage" category). It includes Dr. John R. Fishbein's advice on finding and assessing therapists.

Finally, in addition to the information about therapists, the site also offers a page about other resources, specifically Seminars and Courses on Marriage