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An individual.
Another individual.
A couple.
There are three of you in this together.
Three.
How does it all work?
Perhaps there’s some
magic?
( For us, there seemed to be. )
There is that strange romance
beyond all understanding :
Your partner speaks the words
of your own secret soul
before you even form them for yourself.
Or,
as in a dream,
aware that you alone
might grant your partner’s silent wish,
before you know you can,
you have!
( Have you felt the spell? Haven’t we all? )
But, if this
magic
becomes your expectation,
if you each presume
to live on your other’s behalf
( For this is what it would take! )
and then
feeling your effort is judged,
judge in turn,
who is there left to be you?
And
what becomes of the magic?
Only you yourselves
can truly know
what matters deeply to you,
day-to-day
and through your life.
( It’s who you are. )
So . . .
Tell each other!
Talk.
Really talk.
It’s simple,
though it might not be so easy.
Trust each other.
But,
you must trust yourselves
first.
You can’t -
if you feel the need for control.
Hold nothing back.
( You can’t make bargains with yourself. )
You will now have
differences.
This means that you’re
alive!
Respect each other for this.
Engage each other’s differences.
This is the hardest work.
Don’t give up
when it seems too hard.
It’s not -
if you decide it won’t be.
It is,
you’ll see,
the most rewarding work!
( And don’t neglect agreements. Celebrate them all! )
The clear
uncomplicated heart
is free to love,
and to be loved.
Be free
to live your lives
( To the fullest depth and breadth )
in each other’s,
through your time.
Now,
just let the magic happen when it will.
( And it will! )
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